Friday, 20 March 2009

Arrived safe and sound


Ok bit more info from my last few days in England first (as I cut it short last time). Well the new tenants arrived but it was not a stress free affair, especially as they were trying to decide where their cat was going to love in my pet free house. They did say they would not bring the cat with them but I expect it is happily peeing and sharpening it’s claws all over my new carpets.



Anyway, having given them the keys I headed off to Watford to go and see all my family (on my Dad’s side). It was great to see everyone – even if my news had got a little lost in the Chinese whispers. One of my cousins was excited to here I was going to Naples for 2 years!


Back at the house it looked like I had never tidied – bags and boxes everywhere. That included my room – I had thought I had cleared most of my stuff but there was still such a lot left. There was still a lot of last minute things to sort out and I spent the next couple of days on the phone and internet – forwarding addresses and cancelling utilities, etc. Then I met up with my friend Theo to hand over my Mum’s life to him. Thanks Theo – I don’t know what I would have done without your offer and I hope that everything goes smoothly.


Tuesday was the day to get the electrics fixed – I needed a new fuse board. The guy said it would take a couple of hours but it ended up taking the best part of a day. I was happy when he had finished and it was time for lighting up BUT then he told me that was the time to worry as the new fuse box was hyper sensitive and would turn itself off if there were any problems with the electrics in the house. Guess what??????? Yep it turned itself off straight away and continued doing so even after some adjustments. My stress levels went up and so did the electricians. We went around the house unplugging everything and then plugging things back in and then something else was wrong, etc., etc. Finally the electrician called out that everything was OK – he had accidentally put a wire in the wrong place and it making my house look like there was some major electrical fault. Luckily he was honest, I wouldn’t have known if he had said I had to have a hundred and one things done to fix the faults.


That being the final thing to organise, I got very restless at home (well the tenant’s home) and just felt that I had finished with the house so when Penny came round, to help me move some last bits to my Mum’s, I decided that I wanted to go as well. So I snuck my case out of the house and just left – I’m not that mean, I did phone the agents the next morning to ask them to let the tenants know I had gone.


Finally the big day came. I started it by cooking a full English breakfast and then it was time to hit the shops – who would have thought that in all the time I had been getting ready to go, I wouldn’t actually have time to shop. Was hoping to get some speakers for my iPod but only had time to stock up on some drugs and a battery charger. Took Mum and her carers out for lunch, toasted farewell with a bottle of Champagne and then the taxi arrived. Arrived in plenty of time at Heathrow and got checked in – there was a little problem as I did not have a return flight booked by a letter from VSO was enough to smooth the way. Opted to have a bit of time on my own on the plane – knew there were 4 other VSO people onboard but wanted to wind down and reflect and was hoping for a little snooze. Half way through the flight, just as I nodded off a man 2 seats in front started screaming. His wife was not well and was passing out. So there was a call for a doctor – luckily I was booked in as a Miss – all the cabin crew gathered around and oxygen came out, etc.. How’s a girl supposed to sleep with all that going on! Don’t worry the wife was fine.

After a 5 and ¾ hour flight, we had to change planes in Doha (Qatar) and arrived at 5am (which was 2am UK time) and had a 5 hour wait for the next flight. I managed to stay awake until about 30 minutes before check-in and then nodded off in a chair. Luckily I had not had much to drink and woke up in plenty of time to get onboard. There was a bit of queuing to be done but I passed the time by marvelling at how tall I am again. Not the only reason I choose Asia but it’s not a bad thing! As people got on the plane, a lot of people had sat in the wrong seats, so most people were just sitting in an empty seat THEN, right near the end, a small group of French people got on. They insisted that they have the correct seat number and half the plane had to get up and move around. The flight to Kathmandu (4 hours) went quickly and half way through the flight I introduced myself to the other volunteers and had a chat with them. AND the Dutch lady is going to be in the same town as me. After Neeltje on my last trip, I am worried (Hee Hee).


Was a little worried about the visa process on arrival. Our working visas had not been processed in time and we had been told to get a tourist visa but the form said a maximum of 3 months and no working. I decided the best thing was to be as quick through the process as possible and worry about it later so I ticked tourist and asked for 1 month. – sailed through without a problem.


Outside were some of the VSO office staff with a big sign to welcome us, load up our bags and drive us to the Pacific Guest House. Driving through Kathmandu I was struck by how run down the city is and there are very obvious signs of poverty. Dusty roads and smoggy air with people everywhere and cars and bikes battling against what appears to be a non-existent traffic system. It seems that it is everyone for themselves, so if there is a gap and you think you can get through it you go – after you have given a beep of the horn to let people know you are there. If there is no gap then you make one. Apparently the risk of accidents is what concerns most VSO volunteers here in Nepal.


At the guest house, we had a quick introduction and discovered that there were 5 other volunteers that had just arrived (3 from Kenya,1 from Uganda and 1 from the Philippines and 2 more coming in the next week or so). One of the guys from Kenya is also going to my town - it's going to be a party town I think! So we are now quite a gang. Actually VSO has around 45 people volunteering in Nepal at the moment. We were advised not to go out of the guest house as there had been student elections that day and there had been some trouble and riot police were on the streets (welcome to Nepal) but 2 volunteers, who have been here for a few months, took some of us on a quick tour and then we went for dinner. Great welcome – great curry(with chicken- they also have buffalo on the menu)!


There was no electricity in the evening so we were wandering along dark alleyways with pot holes. Some shops etc have their own generators so there were some lights on and others were lit with candles. The guest house has it’s own generator too but this is only used to power some of the lights. I got a shock at 4am when the power supply came on and all the lights I hadn’t turned off came on. Apparently there are 16 hours a day without electricity and the longest block of electricity is only for 4 hours. The good thing is you get some information in advance – so tomorrow there will be electricity from 4am-8am (very useful – NOT!) and from 4pm to 8pm (ish).

Looking through an information pack we were given, I discovered that there are 2 volunteers already in Birgunj and one of them is at my organisation. Unfortunately he will be leaving the organisation and the town just before I arrive – I think that is bad organisation, it would have been great to have someone to show me around. We spent the afternoon at VSO’s offices with a security briefing to tell us about the current climate, crime, earthquakes and evacuation procedures!!! Then it was party time with all the office staff and volunteers based in Kathmandu.
It rained this afternoon but I was told this was unusual. In actual fact, apart from one day last week, the last time it rained here was Boxing day and before that it rained in October. Consequently there is a water shortage here at the moment.

Anyway that's enough for now .... day of rest tomorrow and then we are having a Treasure Hunt around Kathmandu on Sunday, language classes start on Monday, oh yeah and we get to go for a home stay in a village in a few weeks time!

Monday, 16 March 2009

I'm leaving on a jet plane..........

Go on you know you want to sing the title!!

Thought I better just send a quick note before I head off.

Have been keeping my blog up, just to vent a bit of stress, so you can find out what my past week or so has been like - a week like I never want to experience again!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Anyway just in case I don't get to chat before I go - the day after tomorrow I will be on a plane leaving all my cares behind. To tell the truth so much has been happening it really doesn't seem real.

Quick update as I leave, I have let my house and am now lodging with my tenants. I know lots of you will think that's strange but having travelled and shared dorms with strangers (and a few strange people) it's fine. I am pleased that I am leaving without the house being empty.

Been busy catching up and saying goodbyes. David it was good to see you - but would you believe I fell asleep on the train going home! Went to see my family at the weekend. My cousin had arranged a get together and it was great to see everyone (thanks Janet) as it might be a couple of years until I see them again - although they could always come visit. Ehhh?????

Only the final, final bits of packing to do AND some guy in the shops the other day said just write and ask for extra baggage - so I did and now have 40kg. To tell the truth I am used to travelling light and don't think I can make this weight unless I sneak a mate in my bag - any volunteers?

Thought I would chill out the other night and do a bit more research on Nepal and found this http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/world/south_asia/7263399.stm I only wanted to know what the weather is like - at least you can see where I will be on the map - Birgunj!!! Luckily it'sfrom last year so I am hoping it will be quiet when I get there.

So now just the final farewells, although I know you will all be in touch.
TTFN next message from Nepal - how exciting ;-)

Saturday, 14 March 2009

Wednesday can't come soon enough

Can't believe it is only Saturday - 5 days since my last blog. But what a 5 days it's been.

Was buzzing around like crazy to get things sorted at the beginning of the week. Final bits of house to clear, loads of chasing on the phone for everything. Stuff to move to Mum's, her new wheelchair delivered, mattresses to buy, etc, etc, etc...... Then waiting to hear back on credit checks, electricity safety checks, gas checks. All was going well until the electicitian came around and tutted lots and said there was a LOT of work to be done - even implying that the house might need rewiring.


By Wednesday, a move on Friday was looking very unlikely so we changed to a 'maybe Saturday' and lots of chasing of electrician and utilities etc. I was so stressed by this stage that I had become chilled.


By Thursday stress levels had risen again - I never thought it would be possible to exceed Wednesday's levels - finally decided moving out before I leave for Nepal is just not going to happen and left the Agent to break the news to my prospective tenants. Don't think he was too happy but hey I like people to earn their money.


Friday had another electrician around and luckily things are not as bad as the other guy's tutting had implied and am having it all done before I go. Tenants were stuck as they had nowhere else to go - I had offered them to move their stuff in. Anyway finally agreed that they could move in and start renting today - waiting for them as I type - so I am going to be their lodger in my house for a couple of days......... To be continued.............

Monday, 9 March 2009

Wot a difference a day makes.......

Well when last I wrote (2 days ago) I was stressing about what to do with the car, what to do with the house, and so on......

Tried to give my car to a friend, as I really wanted her to be looked after, but he said no. So, put her on the internet (all sparkly and clean) and the next day she was sold and off to a new home. The couple that bought her were really lovely. They told me they will take good care of her - even said I could email to see how she is doing!! I think, perhaps, they saw a little tear in my eye.

Spent the whole weekend clearing understair cupboards and the outside toilet. Top tip for you - don't cram all your junk in places like this 'cos one day you're gonna have to clear it all out (and I mean ALL!).

So feeling I had achieved a lot, I was able to have a good, long soak in a very bubbly bath, with candles and wine - ahhh some things I really will miss. Relaxed, I was back to Docs for another blood pressure test today (it was high last week - I did tell him I thought it was stress). Anyway today it was back within normal limits. So back home to the next round of phone calls and letter writing and stuff.

Still wondering about the house and what will happen if I go away without renting it. Which estate agents do I leave the keys with, what about insurance if it's empty, etc, etc.... Phone rings, someone coming to view in 5 minutes - who knew I could cram things back in cupboards so quickly! 10 minutes after the viewing get a call for more info; 5 minutes after that get asked if I am prepared to move out of my house early. The couple want to move in this Friday. Ooooh my god!!!! An hour of thinking can I move by Friday? No way! I suppose I could.... No I'll be homeless; but the house would be rented; but I haven't finished packing the house and have not even started thinking about packing stuff to go away with. But the house would be rented. Good old Lyn to the rescue - what am I going to do in Nepal without my good friends and sounding boards? Soooooo.............................


I SAID YES!!!! OH ****!!!!!! (Sure you can fill in the gaps). So now it's get everything done ASAP and wait to find out if I will be homeless this weekend. If I wasn't crazy already, I think this process might well turn me that way.
P.S. Bet my blood pressure is up again!

Saturday, 7 March 2009

11 days and counting





Photos: Anna, Theo, Katherine & Rory; Good wine .... Aaaahhh!!; My little car

I have never known time to go soooo quickly - can't wait to get to Nepal and for things to slow down.

Most things are coming together. Been busy trying to get the house rented - no luck as yet but I am keeping my fingers crossed. Well, it only takes one person and I hope they arrive before I go. Also got to get rid of my car - I love my little car and she has been very good to me so I am hoping for a nice new home for her but again time is running out.

Sorting out finances is ongoing and not helped by call centre staff that don't know what they are talking about. Also doesn't help when people don't read the information you have given them. I am sitting waiting for responses from people only to find out they have decided to write to me in Nepal! WHY?????

Have been having a great time catching up with old friends though and enjoying the fine food and wine that I may miss when I am away (of course good friends could always send a case or 2!). A good old roast dinner is always top of the list and Anna and Theo rustled up a great one with all the trimmings and great wine - still digesting almost a week later! Also had a visit to Madame Tussaud's with some friends from my old work. Had dinner with George Clooney but have to say he was not exactly stimulating company.
Got an email or 2 this week from volunteers who are already settled in Nepal (working for VSO). It was great to have contact, have a few questions answered and know that they are planning for my arrival. Kathmandu is currently 28 degrees with 46% humidity. The list of things to take includes strange things like pan scourers (apparently you can't get good ones in Nepal!) and things I had already planned like an iPod for the long dark evenings.
Had contact from people off my courses that have already gone abroad, some are encouraging, some are worrying and some people are just plain spoiled. Mark sounds like he in settling in well in Indonesia - living with a host family at the moment and learning the language. Tom and Julie have just arrived at their concrete shack minus electricity and with the hope of water. Charlotte sends reports of her nice house, with gate boy and house maid!! Wonder what my accomodation will be like???????